Taking it day by day

Most of my mornings start with a run. I've been waking up at 6 am and though I've been sacrificing sleep, it's been worth it to get a little bit of time to myself. I've also always been one of those weirdos that enjoy running, so there's that.

Breaking out the BOB after a long hiatus

Pretty clouds during one of my morning runs

So each weekday, we try to get the kids to do at least some vaguely academic activity. We've been inundated and somewhat overwhelmed by Sora's teacher. She regularly sends three consecutive emails with activities and assignments. Kai's teacher falls on the other end of the spectrum and we're often at a loss as to what to do with Kai.

Zoom playdate with a surprise a visit from their teacher

I often have Kai follow along with whatever Sora's doing since she has so many activities. Glad that they're close enough in age that this works.. here they are sorting jellybeans..

.. and doing art projects for Earth Day.

Kai had his first video chat with his teacher this week. I could tell that Kai was super-happy to see him

Nik has initiated a few projects with the kids:

Catapults made of chopsticks, popsicle sticks, and rubber bands

A Lego car race

Attempt to make giant bubbles--for some reason, they weren't that stable.. perhaps we need a better recipe?

Our Diet Coke and Mentos experiment literally fizzled out.. only 1 of the 3 bottles had a halfway decent explosion

Part of what keeps us going through these tedious and repetitive days is settings goals and trying novel things. For his part, Nik organized the garage and the kids' Legos while he was on vacation.

Nik also bought a random swing chair to set up in the backyard.
That husband of mine always has to have a project

As for me, I've tried to cook a few new things here and there, but having kids makes you inherently risk-averse when it comes to cooking and food. In spite of that, I roasted a whole chicken for the first time and baked a yeasted bread! The aforementioned goal of running and the fact that I started a diet all before this shelter in place business began has saved me from gaining the dreaded "quarantine-15."

Roast chicken was not half bad, though I need a thermometer to really get it right. Also made dalgona coffee.. which helped me get rid of the instant espresso which had been sitting in my pantry for years

My standard bakes, other than the bread. The bread's texture was okay.. I thought it would be fluffier and it was bland. Not sure if that was my fault or the recipe's. I'll try another yeasted bake in a bit

Nik and I have also taken advantage of a few of the frontliner/first responder freebies. I would probably feel guilty for taking advantage of these deals as a NICU nurse, but having Nik as a true frontline worker, I feel somewhat validated in getting my free coffee, donuts, and McD's.

Thanks, Krispy Kreme! The kids love donuts

Our local McD's stopped offering this deal since too many people were abusing it. The tragedy of the commons...

Did not realize that they were offering free boba until the last day of the promo. Probably for the best, since I would've gone every day if I had known before :P

We set out the tent in the backyard and had a campout on Monday night. Nik slept in the house with Jad. The kids enjoyed the novelty of sleeping outside, though we were all pretty tired the day after.

Setting up the tent

Storytime with Daddy

Rise and shine, Kai-Kai!

Kai's spring portrait came in and of course I can never resist buying school pictures. I'm sad that Sora doesn't have a spring portrait since she never had her picture day, but I'd like to do "photo shoot" with her some time soon.

Staying social in a time of social distancing

Between our family, neighbors, and church, we are so grateful to be surrounded with community. I don't know how we would otherwise stay sane in the midst of social distancing. We are in the middle of our sixth (!!) week of sheltering in place and the new normal still doesn't feel normal, but having these threads of connection to other people is part of what's helping us through this strange time.

We have weekly happy hours with our neighbors, a social distancing approved Easter egg hunt--hiding eggs in each others' yards (along with a not-social distancing approved visit from the Easter Bunny). We've had birthday celebrations, a water balloon fight, and just this evening, we had a neighborhood block party (with 6' of spacing, of course).

With their Easter haul

The kids were so delighted to see the Easter Bunny (one of our neighbors in costume), that I couldn't bring myself to tell them to stay 6' away. Jad, however, was terrified. He wouldn't let Nik put him down for a good long while after the bunny had left, and he will still say "scary" and look towards the front door when he remembers the bunny

Water balloons!

Couldn't trust our kids to stay away from everyone else, so we picnicked on our front lawn..

.. while other folk socialized while 6' apart

Our kids have made themselves right at home on Jack and Kaye's front lawn and stop to roll around on their lawn almost daily, and occasionally the couple pop their heads out to chit-chat. We even had two neighbors drop off masks. We've also been doing group take out orders and picking up groceries for each other. This type of kindness and neighborliness is seemingly rare nowadays and makes me feel so lucky to live where we do.

They just love Uncle Jack's yard

Jack and Kaye. The kids love their yard and always end up bringing lemons home.. we have at least 10 in our fruit bowl -_-

Our church has also been an integral community. The Sunday service livestreams have helped me stay grounded and give some semblance of routine in a time when every day is pretty much the same and it's easy to lose track of the days. The Slack chats and random drop offs of food are wonderful, keeping us feeling connected even while staying apart.

Cakes from the Kongs

Homemade Thai food from Ben and Maling

It's official

We just got the official word that school will not reopen for this school year. I just feel like I've been through emotional whiplash over the past few weeks with all of the changes in our lives and I can't say that I'm surprised. Having all three kids at home constantly has been emotionally trying, I tend to get melancholy and Nik tends to have sudden outbursts of anger which he regrets immediately. I wish there was some light at the end of the tunnel, but we're not there yet. My only consolation is that I know that this can't last forever and we will eventually return to our normal, mundane, boring lives.

Our typical day starts at 7 am when the kids wake up, though I think that Kai may have finally learned how to sleep in, since he didn't come down until 8:30 this morning. We get the kids through breakfast, then get them changed and brush their teeth as we usually would. We then try to do some vaguely academic activity (worksheets, writing, etc.), and after that we follow it up with a walk or outdoor time--even when it's raining, we've made it a point to go outside.

We've written letters to church friends, classmate and neighbors

Here's a choice letter from Kai to a school friend

We go outside in rain..

.. or shine

By then, it's usually lunchtime. We've taken advantage of BUSD's free school lunches, usually it's nice to eat something a little different and sometimes the errand of just loading up into the van and picking up lunch is a nice diversion.

The kids were excited about these shamrock cookies they got for St. Patrick's day.. until they got one every day for the rest of the week

Nik had the kids picnic outside today to just add a little variety

And after lunch, it's time for Jad's nap and I'll let the kids have some academic screen time to keep them quiet.. so lots of Wild Kratts and educational games. Sometimes, just playing a board game will do the trick. Kai loves them and has recently become quite good at Ticket to Ride and checkers.

Once Jad wakes up, they usually play some more.

The kid train!

Very grateful to have a play set in the backyard, especially now with public playgrounds closed

I usually try to get dinner started as soon as possible, since the earlier I can get to them finish dinner means the earlier I can get them to bed. We've kept up with the kids' 8 pm bedtime. We've also let the kids have a lot more TV time that they used to.. we sometimes just need that bit of time to regroup and stay sane.

Weekly movie night on Wednesday. This week was Jad's choice

And that sums up our day. Every day. We're almost done with our third week with sheltering-in-place and the routine is already wearing on us. We've tried to do a few novel things here and there. There's been a bit of baking and delivering goodies to friends and neighbors.

We've been trying to patronize our local restaurants and small businesses whenever we can.

Sora had always been so jealous whenever Kai got personal pan pizzas in kindergarten that I had to make sure she had a chance to use the Book It! coupon that she earned

We even caught a temporary pet from the creek.

A little water strider that we caught. The kids named it "Bouncy", but I only let them keep it for a few hours

Another diversion: indoor acrobatics!

I've made a habit of going running at 6 am before the kids wake up and that little bit of solitary time has helped keep me sane. I'm lucky that I had my knee surgery last year so that running is once again an option! Also, thank goodness for the video chats, texting, and social media!

My Mom showing off a big potato, with a small potato for comparison :D

Even the kids are getting in on the video chat game, though it can only hold their attention for max 15 minutes

The kids have adjusted quickly as kids do. They've sometimes expressed sadness at not being able to see friends or go to school, but I think they're still enjoying their time at home for the most part. There have been lots of arguments, especially as they all jockey for attention since they're all at home together all the time. There's been a lot of "Kai-Kai hit me" or "Sora grab me," from Jad. Occasionally, Kai or Sora will step up and be a good big brother or sister, but those moments seem fleeting.

The speed in which we've adapted to our new normal is amazing. Life is so strange these days.

We're obviously concerned about Nik at his work. He's on the frontlines of this pandemic, though thus far the surge has not yet come and we're cautiously optimistic that the Bay Area started SIP early enough that we will not have an Italy or NYC-style chaos.

Respiratory screening tent outside of Kaiser Skyport

Lots of love for healthcare workers these days. Free donuts from Krispy Kreme!

Trying my best to keep this situation in perspective and remember that life will not be like this forever. One day, I'm sure I will reflect back on this time and remember enjoying this precious time with my family and having everyone at home together while they're young. But man.. it's so hard to have that long view perspective when you're in the midst of it!