Wednesday, June 28, 2023

Summer goings on June 2023

Summer is in full swing here.  Kids are in various activities from week to week, Kittens are slowly being socialized and parents are going crazy without any time to ourselves :p

A few fun pics

One of the last pics of TK on pajama day

Ansel had his usual BBB (Bros, Beers and Broast'ed pork) birthday gathering.  We miss those guys as they are now going to a different church.  In fact, Tak and Akiko as well as John and Mia have all moved to different churches for worship services.  It's a bit sad because we've known most of these couples for years and their kids basically since they were born but I suppose each family must do what is best for themselves and their growth.  Hopefully, we can all still keep in touch even if we don't see each other that often.

The Bros

Because Amy was working that day, I took the kids over so they could sleep over with Evelyn and William.  The Shaws are expecting a baby soon so they may be out of commission for a bit so I'm glad we had a chance to hang out.  Also for the kids too as they have always been good friends with each other.  

Sleepover breakfast :)

For nostalgia sake, I'm adding a picture of Kai and Evelyn when they were just babies together.  I'm still saving this one for the wedding :p

So little!

Sora and Jad spent the first week of summer at VBS at Christ Community Church and they really enjoyed it.  Jad is so outgoing, he made friends very quickly and he's also willing to do just about anything so had no problems.  Sora had a couple of her friends there too so was pretty comfortable.  Kai is aged out so he stayed home and hung out with us (mostly Amy as I was at work).  

Kai was lucky and got to go to Happy
Hollow with Brandon

Younger Kids, including Dustin, at VBS

Kai also participated in another Jujitsu tournament.  He did pretty well, per Amy, and probably should have gotten 2nd place but was given 3rd place instead.  It's hard thing for him and we're proud of him for the effort he puts in.  He's not sure if he love it but we'll keep assessing as time goes by.

Another massive medal

The 2nd week of summer was for swim school.  We have been encouraging Jad to get his head in the water and stop using his floatie but he's been really resistant so we enrolled him in a real class.  There is something to a teacher telling you what to do over a parent though and he took to it much better.  Kai and Sora also both got to practice their strokes more.  Amy was a swimmer in school for a bit so she wants the kids to have really good form.  We have one more week of swim school in about a month so I we'll practice at Villa until then!

Arms straight form

Matt and Nicole came to visit on the week that we had planned to go to the Cal Academy of Sciences so we made it a Huang family trip to SF.  We took Vienna along with us and, after a quick lunch of Japanese takeout, we drove up to meet with everyone else, including David.  We had a fun time going around the museum (using our annual pass for the 5th time!) and then went to dinner in the inner Sunset at a Burmese/Thai place.  Good times.  We also stopped for free Krispy Kremes on the way home :)

Family pic!

Stairs at Moraga and 18th (?)

Father's day also passed and we celebrated by going out to dinner for hot pot at Boiling Point.  It was fun and different.  Proud of the kids for trying some new foods and doing well at a restaurant.  Also got some great Father's day creations from the kids.  Thanks, Amy and kids!

Hot pot time.. we should do this at home more

Lastly, the kittens are doing well.  Amy has really been giving lots of time to them, socializing them and trying to get them ready for adoption.  Kiwi is the most friendly and willing to interact with humans though she's really fierce about getting her share of food, as if she knows she's the smallest and has to grow.  Shadow is the biggest but also friendly and was the first to purr for Amy.  Popper/Poppy is the most shy and will still run away from us.  Pepper is very spicy as her name says and will occasionally involuntarily hiss at us even though she's mostly good now.  

Gray sisters, Poppy and Pepper

Kiwi climbing up the cat box

Amy hand feeding Pepper to socialize her

Mia and John have said that they would adopt Kiwi which is great.  Joe and Michelle and trying to see if they want to adopt one as well.  It would be great if we could find a family for all of them :)

Til next time, everyone!

One more of the four of them eating.  Shadow is the black one, of course.


Tuesday, June 13, 2023

End of School fun / Boston & NYC / Kitten fostering

 The end of the school year comes with a lot of finishing celebrations and parties..

Jad finished up his 1st soccer season!
Here with Conor and Coaches Nancy and Adi

Kai also finished his soccer season.  They did pretty good this year and hopefully, much of the team will be able to stay together when the fall season rolls around.  Unfortunately, they did not have enough people to do the tournament this year so this was the last game they had together.

Kai's team and coach Hector

We haven't seen too much of Micah and his parents, Grace and Caleb recently but Michael celebrated his birthday recently and wanted Kai to come to Golfland with him.  The kids all had a lot of fun playing mini golf and arcade games as well.  Maybe next year, Kai will be in the same class as Micah!

Kids strikin' a pose


Arcade games!

We hosted the Rock Canyon surgical garage party this past month and it was a great success.  We had a bunch of people come by and hang out in the driveway, lit up a bonfire and hung out late into the evening.

I love our neighborhood :)

Jad had a lot of fun days during the last week of school, including Donuts for Dads.  He was very proud to show me his class as well as the food that he had gotten me.  What a sweet kid :)

I think that's supposed to be me on the brown
bag though I don't think he's ever seen me in a tie :D

Donuts for Dads .. or Jad?

Summertime means that kids being at home more which means less time for Amy and I.  I suppose we could enroll them in more full day camps but we want them to relax during the two months of summer as well so mostly we have them in a few activities with empty weeks in between.  

Amy and I squeezed in one last lunch date before summer
vacation started :)

Sora and Kai have both been practicing their class dances for the Noble Dance Festival.  Kai spoke for his class and their dance had a Super Mario Theme with the song "Peaches", a current favorite on the home speakers as well.  Sora had a more complex dance with a western theme.  

Sora was very proud/anxious to be chosen to
be in front during the dance.

Kai did a great job announcing his
class dance and was excited for the Mario Theme

Earlier this year, I got a notice about our 20th(!) year reunion for medical school.  I didn't really think too much about going because I'm already in touch with many of the people that I want to stay in touch with and it was also during the last week of school for the kids so they wouldn't want to go.  I happened to mention it to David, Amy's brother, and he said he wanted to go to Boston because he's a big history buff and also was listening to a biography of JFK.  So, we decided to go together and tie it with a trip to NYC to visit Harsha and others as well.  Honestly, it was a really nice vacation.  I love the kids but when I'm with them, so much of my attention is thinking about them that it's hard to be mindful of other things.  I was able to look at interesting sights and people, wander without much direction and stay up late and wake up on my own time.  It was very relaxing and I have to thank Amy for letting me go while she took care of the kids.  She's a much better parent than I am though with more patience for the kids' shenanigans and difficulties.  I did get very lucky with her.  Some highlights..

Having some clam chowda in a Bahston bahr :D

Walkin' the freedom trail

I spent the most time with Jean and Suzanne and it was really nice to catch up with all of them.  Again, it was nice to be able to hang out without worrying about the kids.  I also caught up with some others.. people are doing amazing things, founding companies, working for pharma, research.  I told everyone, in all honestly, that I am having a hard time just trying to be a good dad and husband :p

So good to see Jean and Suz

One of the formal dinner events I didn't go to :p

It was so cold and rainy on the quad..
odd weather for June 

I was also able to catch up with old friends.  I loved walking by the old homestead (1347 Beacon St!) and Coolidge Corner and especially the Brookline Booksmith, which is just a spectacular local book store.  We met up with Sagar and his girlfriend Johanna and their new dog.  And I was able to visit Dave Tytell and Adam Badik, friends from high school who have relocated to Boston.  

Hanging out in the basement of the Booksmith

I've known Dave since 7th grade

The old apartment, now above Wild Goose Chase

We managed to hit the greats in Boston including getting a Lobster roll, cannoli from Mikes pastry, visiting some famous gravestones and sites, running around the Charles river and catching a Red Sox game at Fenway Pahk :)

Site of the Boston Massacre

Attended an Episcopal service at
the Trinity Church

Getting ice cream at JP Licks

My 2nd Red Sox game at Fenway.. Thanks for
getting us tickets, Suz!

After three days in Boston, David and I took the Amtrak to NYC to meet up with Harsha, who was himself just getting back from Rwanda.  I spent three days wandering Manhattan and then left to come back home while David stayed for the week.

Wandering the West Village

June is Gay Pride month so there were rainbows
everywhere.. the famous Stonewall park/area

A designer skater clothing/brand store that we stopped in..
I thought it was funny that real skaters probably couldn't
afford anything that was shown here

A view from the roof bar of CitizenM hotel

One of the coolest places we discovered was the Museum of Street Art.  Not a traditional museum in any sense, it was basically a small stairwell of the CitizenM hotel that was given to these artists to graffiti/paint in to celebrate the street art of the 5 points area.  It was super cool and each floor has a different artist with different style and methods.  Super neat space.

MoSA!

Bball players

Night scene in the Bowery

some nice lettering

I like how they used the light to cast
a shadow in the art here

On the 1st floor of the hotel there was also a great cafe/bar
space where we hung out and did some serious dudes talk

We also caught up with friends who have settled in the city and Brooklyn over the subsequent days and saw a few cool sights before I headed back home to reality :)

Caught up with Jeff and Greg

Also, saw Mei Li along with Daniel and his
girlfriend, Gabby and met Miryam, Harsha's good friend

Standing on the streets looking for dessert :)

Nice exhibit on Darwin's letters at
the New York Public Library

Prometheus bringing fire down from Olympus

We also happened to be there when the smoke from wildfires in Canada blew down and covered everything.  It wasn't as bad as it was in California a few years ago but still did give a very post apocalyptic vibe to the city.

Hazy Time Square

Red Empire State Sun

I got back for the kids last days of school and, this week, we're in full summer mode.  Sora and Jad are doing VBS this week for the mornings while Kai is at home with Amy most days. I have a lot of work this week to make up for the days I was away.  We've also had a lot of cat drama while I was gone.  Mama cat got caught, spayed and released the day before I left and while I was gone, we used the airtag tracker to find the kittens.  Turns out they were in our backyard all along, hidden underneath the ferns in a corner!  The day I flew back, everyone corralled the kittens and caught them all and we sheltered them in our downstairs bathroom.  Since then, they have been to the vet and shelter where we were told they have to grow more to be adopted out and also socialized so they are friendlier as well so that's why we have 4 kittens in our house now.

The kids love them, of course.  They already named them:
Kiwi, Pepper, Shadow and Popper

Kiwi is the smallest and friendliest.  She was the runt of the litter
and semi-abandoned by mom

We set up a camera to watch them without bothering them too much

They are slowly becoming more friendly

Kiwi (named by Sora) is the smallest but also bravest and will come up to get petted.  I think she latched on to us because mom had left her behind for a bit.  Shadow (named by Kai) is the biggest but still shy along with Popper (who was named by Jad and I).  Pepper (named by Amy) is the spiciest of the group and will often hiss but she's getting better too.  We already told the kids that we're not keeping any of them but it's still fun to foster them for a bit, even if our house smells like the pet store :p

Til next time!