Tuesday, April 29, 2025

Almost May! // Lots of misc // Spring Break at Great Wolf Lodge and Elk Grove visit

 Wow, 2025 is flying by!  It'll be May by the end of this week.  Spring has been generally good.  We've been quite busy with the kids activities.  I've never wanted to be the type that wanted their kids to be overly scheduled but during particular periods of the year, we are definitely overstretched.  Let's see the major things we're involved in right now:

Nik - work, church men's group

Amy - PPP, Girl Scouts leader, taking care of her parents, church women's group, running, lactation course

Kai - soccer, jujitsu, track and field, violin (on hold)

Sora - Girl Scouts, piano, gymnastics

Jad - comp soccer

Aiya!  Anyway, here are some things that have been happening..

Kids went playing/fishing at the creek with neighbors

Amy chaperoned Jad's field trip to CuriOdyssey

Amy is still training for a race later in the year.. she's been racking
up the miles lately!  Great job, love :)

I got into a minor accident .. 1st one ever!  Rear
ended at a stop sign, not my fault :p

Kai chillin in the backyard


We still host church small group every other
Friday.. weather getting nicer for outside play

Also roasted hotdogs and marshmallows 
with church group friends

Amy, Sora and Jad supporting Kai at his 1st track meet.  He runs
the longer distances like 1/2 and 1 milers

Jad on another field trip.. so much fun!

Pulled out the video microscope to look at a dessicated praying mantis

Incredibly, Kai has been doing jujitsu for
like 6 years now

Those are the little things that happened the past few weeks.  We were on spring break last week and didn't do too much.  Amy wanted to spend a lot of time with her parents so we took them on a train ride  one day in Sunol and to visit a close friend up the peninsula on another day.  It's nice as Amy's dad has not gotten out in a while and her mom is always taking care of him so she can't go far either.  With both of their diagnoses, Amy's goal is to make the best of the time that they have.  

The Sunol train ride was about an hour round trip
with some facts about the railroads around the area

It was also brother David's birthday.. he's the same age as
I am but looks 10 years younger.  Happy birthday, David!

A stop for gelato after.. Jad is very proud of his photo bombing :)

The pluses of having a minivan! Got Auntie Lil, kids and parents :)

Dim sum is always good

We took a couple of days to visit Great Wolf Lodge to see what it was like.  We stayed one Wed night and played in the water park the day before and after.  Really family friendly and the slides were a lot of fun.  Mid week is the way to go as if there were too many more people, I think it would not have been as fun.  As it was, lines for rides were 5-10mins mostly and it wasn't super crowded in the lazy river or wave pool.  Also less expensive mid week (~$300) vs $500+ for the weekends.  They really also try to upsell you on food, activities (ropes courses, mini golf, bowling, wand thing..) but we just stuck to the water park and ate at nearby places.  It was fun but even the kids had had enough after the second day.

Welcome to the GWL

All the kids enjoyed the bigger slides these days

Jad had to wear a life jacker for safety but
he could go everything but the biggest slides on his own

The room was nice, being extra large - queen bed and a pull out couch plus a separate kids area

The one thing we did buy there was candy, as
a special treat for the kids

During the visit, Amy was also able to visit our friends, Jen and Randolph, who live in Modesto.  

Could I have a spot of tea?

We then drove over to Elk Grove to visit Bonnie, Tony and their kids.  It was nice to catch up with them and the kids got along well.  We usually go camping with them but with our trip to Costa Rica this year, we probably won't be able to join so wanted to see them.  They are so good and have so many things going from fostering kittens, running their tutoring business, maintaining their massive garden and more.  The kids are fun too, both Juliet and Alex are taking a book from Tony and seem to be very meticulous and interested in business/entrepreneurship :) 

Lots of fun with the ninja rope

Tony made snow cones for all the kids!  Not as fine
as Hawai'ian shave ice but still tasty

All the nerd kids reading :)

That's all for now.  Lots of stuff here and there. We've done the bulk of the planning for Costa Rica and summer is mostly mapped out. Visits from Joe, Chris and Viet plus families.  Maybe a trip to San Diego as well.  Til next time!

Jad is tuckered out from all the driving





Tuesday, April 1, 2025

April!?! // Socal Trip // Soccer season starts // Misc

 Why is it April already?!?  Happy April Fool's day :)  I've been falling behind on the blog a bit, I think because for a while there wasn't too much going on but then, the last few weeks, there was too much going on!  Anyway, I'll try to catch up..

Girls Scout Cookie season ended (finally!)  Amy is so good / OCD about the bookkeeping that it takes her forever, which takes a lot of time.  Now that it's over, she has more time for other things.  Their troop sold about 3000 boxes of cookies so that means prizes and about $3000 for the troop to spend during the year! 

I think they are selling out of the back of the van at 
our local library here :)

One of the booths in front of Safeway

For our February /Ski week break, we decided to drive down to SoCal as it has been a while.  We started off the visit with Brian, Sue and Ophelia in LA.  It was a short visit but was nice to catch up with everyone.  Anne came by for dinner as well so it was nice to see her too.

Versailles.. so good!

The next morning, we dropped by the Getty Center.  We haven't been in several years and I forgot how spectacular the place is.  The tram ride up and the view of Los Angeles, the marble covered buildings, the art galleries, the garden, the sheer number of workers from guards to landscapers and more.  I mean, this place must have cost a billion dollars to build ($1.3b actually when I looked it up) .. and it's all free (aside from parking)!  It really made me feel like, this is what billionaires should be doing with their money (instead of trying to make more money for themselves or take over the government so they can make more money for themselves).. sigh, so sad about the state of our country.

Jad standing in a rainbow
in the main foyer

Exhibit on a cool Victorian era microscope

The gardens are such a nice complement to the galleries

Frolicking in the grass

Sora standing next to a $50 million Van Gogh

After the morning, we drove down towards Temecula to visit the Halls.  It turns out that their house flooded (leaky toilet flapper with plugged toilet upstairs) so they had to rent an Airbnb but they were so generous that they still offered to host us.  It was so good to see them and the kids had a lot of fun together.  We still miss them as our neighbors but are very happy that they have found a good place in Temecula.

A quick lunch with Siavosh on the way

Jad and Evie doing a science/craft project

The rental had a pool table and 7 TV's .. overkill probably
but the kids didn't think so :)

Some soccer/outdoor time as well.

After two nights in Temecula, we headed off back to OC to visit Matt, Nicole and Lucas.  They bought a small condo and are doing well, though at a busy stage in their life with career, school, baby and home.  Amy and I remember that time in our lives as well.  They do have a lot of help from Nicole's family which is great but it does seem very exhausting for the moment.

We went to dinner at The Mercado Northgate Market.  I was expecting a 
version of the markets in Spain or Portugal but this was a much nicer
combo of shops and eating area.  Very tasty :)

Very clean and modernized.. fresh torillas!

Also fresh churros .. yum!

Went out to Laguna beach near the Rivian Theater (an old theater they converted to a showroom,
which was ok, fun when they have a free movie showing, I think).  The beach was great though
so warm even in Feb.. I miss SoCal beaches..

After staying with Matt for a night, we went to visit with Viet and Dina in Brea.  They too have settled quite well since moving back from Boston a few years ago.  Their kids are also just a bit younger than ours, so they all got along great.  It was really nice to see them and talk with Viet in person, rather than our usual gaming time chats.

Ninja rope in the backyard

  Plants vs. Zombies GW2 fest :) Videogames for everyone!

Taco time!  We did have a lot of Mexican
food while down there :D


Jad and Gracie got along very well

Kids playing hide and seek.. Everyone missed
Marko for a while

On our last full day there, we went to meet up with Mauri and go to Downtown Disney to meet up with Amy's college friends.  We saw a lot of friends this trip, didn't do any theme parks or anything but it was really nice to see everyone.  

Sushi lunch with Mauri and sons

Randomly stopped by a festival 

Sharing a giant Oreo CrazyShake at Downtown Disney

A quick picture of the crew .. and blurry jad, I think.. was really good to see everyone there

Disney is very good at designing spaces for kids.. they ran around
for hours in this little area


Viet, ever the scientist, designed a taste experiment
for the kids on their last morning together

Back home, we carried on.. There was an incident with Kai in Mid March.  He was in a gmail chain with a bunch of kids from both middle and his old elementary school.  One of the kids got mad at something and then sent a middle finger emoji, which Kai thought was directed at him so he sent back a really over the top string of curses and vulgar emojis.  He was reported for it, of course, and then got pulled to the Principal's office.  He feels pretty sorry for it and we had a some long talks with him.  We still think he's a good kid, very smart, but trying to fit in at middle school can be really hard (he says kids curse at each other all the time).  He got no video games for a month, which he's been good with, and we will try to continue to support him and model good behavior.  Anyway, it has made us less complacent and we'll have to more carefully monitor device use in the future too.

I've been trying to be good about exercise (so I 
won't die :) .. 20-30mins on the garage elliptical
everyday and more exercises while at work

Sora has some mild near sightedness so 
she tried on some glasses.  She is not a fan
so we're doing atropine drops now.. we'll see

Sesame resting on Kai

Soccer season started .. Kai is doing U12 rec and Jad is doing
U8 comp.. makes for a very busy week

Sora had a piano recital which went quite well

I hosted the Girl Scouts at work and
helped them get their First Aid Badge

Kids are back to doing Friday Art with Peggy


Amy is still running.  She's planning to run a marathon in Korea
in Oct so has signed up for a couple of halfs in the
next few months.  Pretty amazing.. Go Amy!

Matt brought Lucas and Daniel, Gabby and Ellie came to visit

Jad loves fooling with the younger kids

Play that piano, Lucas!

That's about it for the last few weeks.  It's been busy but we're keeping on .. Hope everyone reading this is well.  Til next time!

You know, despite it all, Kai is still
a great, silly, awesome kid