Monday, November 4, 2024

COVID!! // School starts 2024 // Kai joined cross country // Church Retreat // Casanovas visit and birthdays // New Orleans // Karaoke night!

Whoa, so many things to catch up on in the past couple months!  Ok, here goes..

So, we got back from Barcelona on the Friday before school started next week on Thursday.  We built that time in as we figured we'd have to get over the jetlag but the kids recovered very quickly, though Amy and I took a couple of days to even out.  I went right back to work (call center) on Sat and Sun though and then back to the clinic on Monday while Amy got the kids used to waking up on time for school.  On Monday, I felt a bit of a runny nose and tested myself for COVID because we had been traveling.. Positive!  I immediately quarantined myself in our bedroom and then everyone else tested.  Since school was starting in 3 days, we did not want the kids to miss their first days of school.  Everyone was negative except Jad so he joined me again in our bedroom, just like a couple years ago when we both had COVID.  Jad really had no symptoms and, like last time, he really enjoyed his 1:1 time with dad and extra time to watch TV and play video games.  

Sleeping with Jad for a few days

We both felt fine and school policy said that it was ok to come with a mask so we sent Jad to school with a mask.  By the weekend, Jad and I had recovered .. but then Amy tested positive so she had to quarantine for several days.  Kai and Sora never got it and overall, our symptoms were very mild so I'm grateful.  I know a few people who have gotten COVID and had some long term consequences so even though it's mostly harmless, we still think it's best to avoid if possible. 

School started and the kids have been doing well.  Jad is continuing in his PPP class to 1st grade so he knew most of the kids in class already so we didn't worry about him.  Sora started 4th grade and half of her class got split into a new class but she also has a lots of friends so we thought she'd be fine.  We were most concerned about Kai, who started 6th grade in middle school this year.  Kai is more quiet and only one of his good friends went to Piedmont Middle with him.  He came back from school the first couple days and, not only does he have all the toughest teachers, he also didn't know anyone in any of his classes.  I remember when I started middle school, I had to go to a different school than all of my friends as well and it was a miserable two months until we moved to Newbury Park so I was anxious for Kai.  Kai is also a bit disorganized so we weren't sure how he'd do with 6 classes.  But it's been two months now and he's doing very well.  His grades are mostly A's and his teachers mostly like him.  He's managed to stay mostly on top of his homework and has made some friends.  He also chose to join the cross country team (Amy is so proud!) and has been running a lot the last couple of months.  He's not super fast (yet) but he's got endurance and is steady so for the longer races, he'll often catch up at the end.  He is 2nd fastest at his school for his group.  Way to go, Kai!

Obligatory first day picture

I don't know how long he kept
that mask on once we left :p

Biking convoy to school

This past weekend, Kai ran a 5k fun run with Amy
and he beat her!  His time was about 25 mins :p 

Our neighbor Tam is also on the X-country team

A few random things here..

Kai helping Jad to wash the car.. Kai can be kind of
absent minded much of the time but sometimes he
can show that he really cares

Jad likes to sneak into our bed and often
ends up sideways :D

Brian, Sue and Ophelia also came up for their annual visit but it was during our COVID
time so we weren't able to hang out with them and had to settle for a quick visit

We had our fall church retreat with Made for More as the theme.  It's always a good time and a chance to get away from the usual worries of life to think about your true priorities.  Kai is now part of the regular congregation for much of the time though he is still part of BYF (Boulder Youth Fellowship) for their activities and spent most of his time with the middle school boys group.  Hopefully, they can all form strong bonds like the older teens have.  We didn't take any pictures but Body Life, where we share what's going on in our lives with the entire congregation, was great this year.  Lots of heartfelt, deep and touching testimonies.  I have always admired the teens especially for sharing at such a vulnerable time in their lives and hope that our kids will have the confidence to do the same when they are older.  Maybe not in a large group like Body Life but even with their close friends here.

Silly shenanigans and games

Boy's group: Brandon, Zachary, Niko, Kai,
Caleb, Joshua, I think

Not to be outdone, Sora was hanging with Noe and Capri
all weekend.  Jad is sneaking in there too.

One of the things that I took from the retreat was to try to spend more 1:1 time with each of our kids.  They are growing up fast and I want to be with them while I can.  Did you know they say that once your kid goes to high school, you've already spent 90% of the time that you'll ever spend with them?  Something like that anyway..  So, we've tried to spend some time individually with each kid when possible.  

Amy and Kai at Kakuna Sushi

Jad thinks 1:1 time is Yogurtland time

We did it with Sora too but there doesn't seem to be a picture I can find :p  Of course, 1:1 time with the spouse is important and Amy and I took advantage of the kids being at school to sneak out for some lunch dates.  We went to Santana Row and it is very different than I remember.  Then again, it's been years since I was there.  We watched Didi, which is a great coming of age film about an Asian kid in Fremont (just like Amy).  We didn't realize this at first but Sean Wang, the director of the film, is the brother of our friend at church.  Since it's semi-autobiographical, she is the sister depicted in the movie.  It shows how old we're getting but both Amy and I sympathized so much with the mom character in the movie :)
Went to Momosan for lunch after the movie

Pretty tasty.. I think we had these buns in NYC many years ago

Amy continues to be our girl scout troop leader.  It seems to be a lot of stress especially as many of the other parents aren't contributing as much but Sora does enjoy it and Amy wants to show her that being a leader sometimes means stepping up.  They had a nice sleep over at Rainbow's End while I watched the boys at home one weekend.

Campfire time!

Game time before bed
 
The girls made pancakes on their own

A few other random pics..


Matt and Nicole came to visit so the kids
were able to hangout with Lucas

We found squishmallows on sale at Walgreens..

.. and bought a gangload for future presents
and party favors.. Kids also took 2 each :D

Our neighbor David made us an awesome
little library that we put up in front of the house!

Bookbot after we painted and stocked him..
there's even a secret compartment in his head!

The Casanovas also came back for a visit and we celebrated
Paige's, Lester's and my birthdays together

My med school friends have been trying to plan a gathering to celebrate Luis' 50th as well as just a general reunion.  We tried for a long time to get a date and eventually settled on meeting in New Orleans for a few days at the end of Sept.  Unfortunately, Lizette was dx with a lung nodule and needed surgery so he had to pull out of the trip and then Jeff and Greg also decided not to come.   Still, Harsha and Mauri were still up for it so we still went.  I have to thank Amy for her graciously letting me go despite all the things going on with her parents and taking care of the kids for the weekend.

Haha, I learn from my last trip..
no COVID for me!

The Big Easy

New Orleans was great.  Such a nice city with a very musical and artistic vibe.  We were lucky that we got to meet up with Jane and Maria, who are both locals and were able to hang out and show us around.  It was especially nice seeing Jane, who I hadn't seen in a long time and hang out with her on most of Friday.  We also met up with Maria, who has been living in NoLa for almost a decade now.  With her social extraverted personality, she seems to have really Integrated herself into the culture of the town and knows all sorts of people and the ins and outs.  She works as the MaĆ®tre d' at the Chloe, a boutique hotel and restaurant/bar so we went there for dinner.  Having dinner there was really the nicest part of the weekend for me, not only because Maria kept sending various drinks and dishes for us to try, but just because it felt like we were really just being taken care of.  And we got to hang out in the backyard of the hotel after for a while, just chatting and learn about all the celebs that go through the place.

Having a frozen drink with Jane and the dudes

The Chloe, apparently one of the top boutique
hotels in the country

The Chloe has a very cozy vibe (though much
of that may have been Maria's hosting)  

Got some beignets for breakfast..
They are heavy! 

Wouldn't be complete to go somewhere with Reddy
and not have a museum visit .. learning about
incarceration and ties to slavery :(

Pre dinner snack of BBQ oysters.. very tasty

Maria called a friend and got us into Mamou,
highly regarded French restaurant 

We passed through Bourbon Street on 
the way back so had to take a pic but mostly
we did not spend too much time there

Overall, it was a fun trip and a good chance to take a break from the kids for a bit.  I'm always grateful to Amy for letting me get away for a few days and have encouraged her to try to do the same.  No, I will not kill the kids while she's gone :p  Hopefully, we can plan something for the med school friends next year as well.

Lastly, we have continued to have our church family group meeting at our house every 2-3 Friday evenings.  Amy and I have tried to remain involved in our church and this is our way to contribute.  This particular meeting, we had another group join us so it was a bigger gathering than usual.  We had lots of food though and had fun karaoke-ing and catching up with each other.

So much food for the potluck

Kids all over the place

The girls took a bit to get going with the karaoke..

.. but once they warmed up, they did not want to stop!

Lots of good memories.  I want to keep this blog going because with the pace of life, I feel like there are so many things that will get forgotten if we don't write them down.  Til next time!  

Tuesday, October 22, 2024

Spain 2024

 All right, onto finishing the 2nd half of our Europe trip in Spain :) 

With Alyssa (AJ) and her family having moved to Valencia, we planned to visit there for 5 days then go to Barcelona for 4 days.  In the past, we would often push to do a bunch of stuff during vacation but we've slowed down a bit and now usually aim for 1-2 things a day and some built in leisure time, like how we went to the beach in Porto and just played for most of the day.  Yes, we could just as easily go the beach an hour away from home so it does seem squanderous (is that a word?) but the kids have more fun and we are more relaxed, even if we don't see all the sights in a given place.  

Landing in Spain and walking off the plane

AJ and her family (John, Melissa and older sister Kelsey) surprised us at the airport.  We kept it quiet and Sora was very surprised to see her.  They hadn't seen each other for over a year so it took them a couple hours to reacquaint but after that they all got along very well.  It helped that Kelsey was so friendly and outgoing and eventually all five kids were playing together.  John and Melissa helped us get back to the our rental which was just about 5 mins walk around the corner from their condo.  They have a really nice setup with a large 3 bdrm place, which was cheaper than Angel's place in Porto.  The girls have really enjoyed living in Spain and "never want to go back" to the US :)  The situation is a bit different than ours as I think John and Melissa were working so much to keep up in the bay area that it was hard for them to get time with the kids.  The move has allowed them to spend much more time as a family and increased their happiness quite a lot.  

Kelsey, Sora and AJ

The other bonus is that Harsha met us in Valencia as well!  He was just coming back from Rwanda and was passing through Europe so made a detour to join us for three days.  It did not turn out to be easy, with flight delays and extra cost, but seeing him is always awesome and welcome.  He stayed with us in our rental (two bedrooms, Harsha got the small one, Kids had the larger room and Amy and I slept on the pull out sofa.)  Harsha has traveled with us to so many places including Japan, Prague, Valencia and many places in the US.  Good times, my friend.

On the couch at our rental

Valencia has one of the nicest mercados in Spain, housed in an old building done in a mix of Valencian Art Nouveau and Gothic style (I don't really know what that means :)  Our place was right next to it .. great job, Amy, for picking the rental.

The Mercado is still functioning as a true market,
rather than changing to cater to tourists

We rested for the night and then spent the first day walking around the old town.  Valencia is very nice.  Still not super touristy, though more and more people are traveling there.  Even within 5 days, we got the know the old town pretty well already so it was nice and familiar.  Outside of the old town, it's a medium sized city like most others along with a great public transport system, like most European cities.  Valencia is also part of the old Catalan region of Spain (they have some different words for things and speak with that lisp), right on the beach and not so commercial/touristy so a nice combination.

Our first breakfast in the plaza next to the market..
not sure why Kai looks so funny :D

The old silk exchange

Kids got some ice cream as a reward for
walking around in the 90+ deg heat

Kids spent some time relaxing and playing games as well

Valencia has a really modern area called the City of Arts and Sciences, which is a complex of museums, theaters and parks.  The kids went off to the aquarium with Amy and Melissa while I wandered around with Harsha looking for a book on Valencia photography.

Very nice aquarium and deep water exhibits


Silly Jad

There is a lot of water features and decorative pools around the buildings of the complex.  I don't think you were supposed to go in there but a lot of people were wading around and Kai and Jad jumped right in.  I was trying to give the kids more freedom (inspired by John and Melissa's parenting style and a talk with Harsha) so didn't interfere and let them have their fun.  If you look closely at the picture below, there's a deeper spot that Jad ran and slipped into.  Thank God, he was still able to stand up and Kai was nearby and helped him.  Funny, I want to give the kids more independence but, having seen some terrible things in the ER, I know it only takes a moment for something to go badly wrong so those two sides are always conflicting within me.  

They got soaked but dried off quickly in the heat

We had a nice dinner of various tapas and a chance to chat with Melissa and John while the kids ran around in the playground.  We ate til about 10pm and then took the bus back.  A later schedule than usual but when in Spain, you must do as the locals do.

Patatas Bravas, one of many tapas plates

Waiting for the bus to go home

The next day, we met up again and walked through the old town from the other side.  It was so nice to have friends to hang out with, just like when we were with Angel and Sujit in Portugal.  Really, that was the best part of this trip to have these shared experiences with friends.

Torres de Cerranos, the old city gates

Where did Kelsey go?  We also lost Jad at one point in the tower.  He is pretty good so we weren't 
too worried but I did go down to the entry stairway in case he wandered out

Valencia has a great street art scene, much like Portugal, and some of the works were really cool.  It really added to the feel of a real living city, rather than just a place for tourists.


A couple garage doors near our rental

There were these ninjas all over in different
poses.. Jad is copying this one

This painting really looks 3D

And this mural was super cool

Kids are posing like the characters in back.

The kids had a really good time hanging out together

In addition to a great Spanish food, Valencia is big enough to have a great variety of food.  We stopped at a Mediterranean place for lunch and had some pretty good stuff.  We are a bit spoiled coming from the bay area though because we have a great variety of cuisines here and most of it is quite good.


There was a lot of walking while we were in Europe and we regularly hit 15,000 steps a day.  It's a much healthier lifestyle than here in the US where, even with some effort, I'm usually averaging about 600 steps per day.  I've tried to keep it up here but it's much harder for me to get going when I'm not heading to a place or sight to see.  

Church of San Nicolas, the "Sistine Chapel" of
Valencia.. very elaborate murals

We also didn't eat quite a much (maybe?) while we were traveling.  Usually we would get up at 9a or so and then eat some pastries for breakfast/brunch, get going around 11am or so (the hot part of the day, already) and then walk somewhere, we'd eat snacks or ice cream/gelato along the way through the afternoon and then usually a dinner at about 7pm and that was it.  

Example of said gelato

There were traditional gelato flavors but also
some odd ones, like smoked salmon (ugh), for the tourists

Tinto de Verano is red wine with soda and 
a ubiquitous drink in Valencia

Gulliver playground where the structure is shaped like
a fallen giant man

The Pearsons were so nice to us and such good hosts.  The girls wanted a sleepover so one night, Sora went over and stayed with Kelsey and AJ.  Amy and I took the boys (Harsha included) for some traditional Valencian paella (chicken and green beans) and seafood paella at La Riua.  Paella originated in Valencia, you know, so it would be remiss for us to not try it here.  It was very good :) 


That paella is making me hungry now 

They behaved pretty ok at the restaurant.. Jad is 
admiring the decor :)

The girls had so much fun and the next night, they invited the boys over too so Amy and I had a date night and time to ourselves while traveling (which never happens) so that was amazing.  We were able to wander around on our own time and then go out for a nice dinner.  

Where are the kids?!?

Dinner at a cute little place Amy found

After sleeping in, we had a relaxing
breakfast at a cafe before getting the kids ;)

ps. Horchata in Valencia is made with chufa (tiger nuts) and tastes quite different than the Mexican variety.  It's less sweet and more fibrous, an interesting taste.

Our last full day in Valencia was a beach day.  The Mediterranean's water was so warm!  It's probably not like this all the time and I don't remember what the water was like when we were in Greece (a dozen years ago almost), but this water was amazing.  We all spent the day playing in the waves and trying to body board.  It was quite fun :)

Taking up much of the train on the ride there

Boys had a lot of fun on the boogie boards

We ended up staying there until almost sunset

All in all, our time in Valencia was great and we are very thankful to the Pearsons for helping us to feel welcome in their new home city.  Hopefully we can repay them when they visit the bay area.

Hugs before leaving!

Waiting for the train to Barcelona!  These kids are
going to be expert travelers :)

Kids done passed out on the train ride

We arrived late evening in Barcelona.  Immediately, you can tell that the city is larger and busier, more international than Valencia.  The stores are all recognizable, often upscale, brand names and there is much more numbers and diversity of locals and tourists.

We hadn't had Asian food in a while so we went
across the street to Oishii Ramen Station for dinner

Cool decor and train but the food was mediocre.. maybe ok
for Spain but we're used to pretty good ramen :p

Our place in Barcelona was pretty nice.  Located centrally, very close to the Passeig de Gracia station and the main walking street down towards Las Ramblas.  It was a loft kind of place with a cool spiral staircase but they had an outer door and apt door that unlocked via an app and it was very unreliable.  Often it wouldn't work and we'd have to wait til someone came out to let us in.  There was another issue too but we'll cover that later.

We got going the next day and walked around town.  We pointed out the requisite Gaudi architecture and explained some of the significance to the kids. 

Superhero pose in front of La Predera

The line in front of Casa Batllo.. we didn't end
up going into these places, just admired from outside

Las Ramblas is very busy!

We went to this fantasy inspired place for lunch and rested our feet.  Neat place, kind of like
a rainforest cafe kind of vibe with a bit more fantasy

After that we took a free talking tour of the Gothic quarter

Some cool history and architecture

Food is a big reason that we people travel.  I wouldn't say we were foodies but we like to have good authentic dishes wherever we travel.  For Tapas, we managed to walk in to Cerveceria Catalana which was just a few blocks from our rental.  Really good tapas! 

Probably the fanciest place we ate at in Barcelona.. on the sidewalk

Fish, Eggplant, Tomato Bread and Octopus.. all very good, 
though we're going to give up octopi because they are too smart

The next day we walked around Parque de Montjuic and the old Olympic area.  There was a big castle at the top and a great view of the city but the kids didn't want to go into the castle.  With the Olympics going on while we were there (we watched a lot of olympic events in the mornings and evenings.. the climbing and skateboarding were big hits), we thought it would be cool to go through the old Olympic locations. Unfortunately, they were mostly closed so we just spent a lot of time walking down through the park.  The park ends at the Montjuic fountains, a place that I thought was really magical when I first backpacked through here in 2002 (22 years ago!)  The fountains were lit up at night, there would be music playing and lots of people just hanging out around the area.  The fountain was shut down due to drought concerns, which I understand, but too bad the kids couldn't see it.

Ninja-ing around the old cannons

The gate to Castel de Montjuic

I still remember this from the 1992 Olympics.. cool to see in person
but it didn't make much of an impression on the kids

There was an Olympic museum and they had many of the torches from the previous years

After much walking, we made it to the National Museum and
got some ice cream

They also had some sort of art/festival going near the fountain

Unfortunately, we returned to our rental late in the evening to find that someone had stolen our tablet and laptop :(  We aren't sure what happened.  The place was on the 7th floor in a building with an outer door so it wasn't easy to get into but with the electronic lock, I wonder if the cleaning people had access or any other number of people.  It's possible that we may have even left the door unlocked / open while going out because the kids were the last to come to the elevator.  It did seem to be a crime of opportunity because they didn't bother to look thoroughly around and money and passports were left in my bag (though my colorful rainbow shirt was missing too!)  I wonder if it may have been some younger person who saw the door ajar and just grabbed whatever looked valuable on the desk.  We called the police and they sent two officers to come take our report.  They said I'd have to go to the main police station (near Montjuic) to file the report the next morning.  The whole experience soured things for us and we felt anxious about everything.  We froze our credit reports and was paranoid about our accounts for a while after.  Things seemed to have blown over though and we haven't had any issues yet.  I suppose these kind of things happen though and we've been traveling for many many years without losing anything so in the end, it's not so terrible.

The police report

The next morning, I woke up early and went to the police station at 8am.  They said I would have to wait for the official translator who came in at 9am though I offered that I spoke some Spanish and could use Google Translator to help.  I waited for a while and then eventually talked to the translator and filled out a report.  She then told me, they would submit it for a detective to review.  I was like, "how long will that take?"  About 2 hours she told me and I had to be there when they were ready so they could file the report.  What?!?  I think they make it hard on purpose.  Considering that we were leaving the next day and the chances of getting our stuff back was minute, I decided to just leave.  The laptop and tablet were not super expensive and I wasn't going to miss our travel day for it.  The kids were very understanding but sad that they lost their game progress what was on the tablet :p  We tried not to let it sour our vacation.

The police station early in the morning.. Spain does
not operate in the early hours :(

Back in the day, you could just walk up to the Sagrada Familia and get tickets to walk in but no longer.  We made reservations about a week in advance while we were in Valencia and that's where we headed when I got back to the family.  The Sagrada Familia is really amazing and it's so close to completion.  It was supposed to be done a few years ago actually but the construction was delayed by COVID.  Now they say it'll be totally complete in about 2-3 years.  It's been building for over 150 years!  I originally thought it was all Gaudi but apparently a number of architects after him made changes and elaborated on his designs.  It's just such a unique and impressive building and truly something not to miss when there.

Almost done!  But they'll have to go back and clean
up over a century of dirt and grime 

The light was great on our visit and the projections onto the walls
and ceilings were beautiful

They had added pews and altar from the last time
Amy and I were here

Stained glass on one side was warm and light while the other side
was darker and more deep.. very pretty

Nearly every wall and fixture was styled

We left the Sagrada Familia and then walked towards Park Guell (not enough Gaudi for one day?!? :) stopping at a pearl milk tea place.  We walked for a while but eventually we gave up and took the bus up the hill the rest of the way.  I'm glad we did too because it was a pretty long walk. Park Guell is a park that belonged to Eusebi Guell, a count and patron of Gaudi, who let him design much of the structures in the park.  Eventually, it was donated to the city and became public / tourist space.

Panda milk tea.. pretty good but not
 as cheap as I was hoping

A view from the bus stop near the entrance to Park Guell 

These columns and walls are pretty cool.  Kids
tried to climb up a bit :)

It's almost like Alice in Wonderland or something with all the colors and curves

Jad goofing around the walls and gates

Cool ceiling and great family

The famous lizard/dragon

And that was our last day in Barcelona!  I think we had a great time and hope that we, including the kids, have great memories from the trip.  When asked they said that the best part of the trip was the time we spent in Valencia with the Pearsons, which I can understand.  It was tough at times, like all trips, but  I think we'll remember this one for a long time.  We packed up that night and took the train to the airport, where it was super busy.  After a very long travel day, we finally made it home.   

At the Barcelona airport waiting for check in

Heading home!  I like this guy looking directly at the
camera above Kai's head :)

That's it for Europe (this year anyway :)  Til next time!